It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Alexander "Zandy" Bicket (1973S), a beloved husband, father, brother, and friend. Zandy passed away unexpectedly in Pittsburgh on 2 December 2024, despite a significant decline in his health over recent months.

His twin brother, Nicky Bicket (1973F), had the privilege of spending the last ten days by his side - a meaningful time that underscored the deep bond the two shared.

Anthony Gibson (1973S), a family friend, shared this touching message with Nicky, which beautifully captures Zandy’s character:

At such a sad time, I do not have much to say that will bring comfort to you; Zandy’s wife, Susan, and his children, Ian and August—and us, his close and very old friends. It is just that… very sad.

Saying goodbye to a loved one, no matter their age, state of suffering, or circumstances, is just horrible. I met Zandy when I was six years old! That is 90% of my time on earth.

Zandy has always been there—loyal, funny, cynical, smart, and caring. He was also gifted, which meant he could excel at most things.

As you well know, Zandy did not have an ideal childhood, and this left its scars. To adapt the expression “hiding one’s light under a bushel,” I have often thought that Zandy “hid his happiness under a bushel.” It was always there, but he really battled to express it sometimes.

The world just feels so much lonelier than it did one day ago. I will miss him terribly.

Sending much love and comfort to you,

Anthony

Zandy’s passing is deeply felt by his wife, Susan, and his children, Ian and August. We send our deepest condolences to them during this difficult time.

Nicky Bicket plans to provide a fuller reflection on Zandy’s remarkable life, which will be shared in due course.